Is suicide is passion for youngsters ?????

Yesterday i.e 22/2/2010 is one of the SAD day in my life as I lost one my Friend ( very close to heart).. as she committed suicide.... I am surprised, shocked, lost and blank for sometime...

So i just wanna remember and share this moment in my blog along with my happiest moments.... hope after reading at least few people will understand and don't do the mistake of suiciding or share to others about it....

Suicide is an important issue in the Indian context in present scenario ..... Now a days suicide has become a passion for everybody from school children to elderly people... especially among youngsters.... What the people learning from the education, social culture and at home from elders ??? to get commit suicide for no reason ( or without any meaning full reason)...

A boy commit suicide coz mother scolded as he is not studying, playing during exams or insulted by teacher in the school....

A youngster commit as they didn't get rank in Eamcet / failed in exam, lost love, parents not accepting for Love marriage .. etc etc etc...

Yes, I do agree that both sides there should be understanding ... but just because of silly reasons people should not commit suicide I feel... if one commit suicide in somewhere someplace in --------- people read and do the same without reason ( with Inspiration) .... is this the common sense and knowledge they developed and learned from their past and from their elders.

A small study about suicide: ( Indian Journal of Psychiatry)

More than one lakh (one hundred thousand) lives are lost every year to suicide in our country. In the last two decades, the suicide rate has increased from 7.9 to 10.3 per 100,000. There is a wide variation in the suicide rates within the country. The southern states of Kerala, Karnataka, Andhra Pradesh and Tamil Nadu have a suicide rate of > 15 while in the Northern States of Punjab, Uttar Pradesh, Bihar and Jammu and Kashmir, the suicide rate is <>

The majority of suicides (37.8%) in India are by those below the age of 30 years.

The near-equal suicide rates of young men and women ^[2] and the consistently narrow male: female ratio of 1.4: 1 denotes that more Indian women die by suicide than their Western counterparts. Poisoning (36.6%), hanging (32.1%) and self-immolation (7.9%) were the common methods used to commit suicide.

Divorce, dowry, love affairs, cancellation or the inability to get married (according to the system of arranged marriages in India), illegitimate pregnancy, extra-marital affairs and such conflicts relating to the issue of marriage, play a crucial role, particularly in the suicide of women in India. A distressing feature is the frequent occurrence of suicide pacts and family suicides, which are more due to social reasons and can be viewed as a protest against archaic societal norms and expectations

Instead of Inspiring from looser why dont they get Inspired by success full women who has Won the life in their life time... why don't they develop confidence of achieving and succeeding in life with good reasons...

Movie's not only for entertainment.....

Creation or creativity is not easy for everybody....

Everybody can express their feelings and what they think in mind through some way ( Writing, verbal, Pictures etc), but every individual have their own style of expressing...

Expressing what you feel or think is important but the way you express those is even more important which reach to the target exactly ,that is called CREATIVITY (Simple Bhasha mein as I am also one of Idiot )...

Else you can define it as: Creativity is a mental and social process involving the discovery of new ideas or concepts, or new associations of the creative mind between existing ideas or concepts. Creativity is fueled by the process of either conscious or unconscious insight. ...

All these introduction is just to tell you the following... hope you will not get bored after reading it... if you get then I am not written it creatively or you may not have read it creatively .... hmmm now let me start

Recently I saw one movie which most of them did not appreciate ( those who think movie is only a entertainment) as the movie does not contain songs, heroin, hero roles, Etc....

But it consist of lot of good ideas about news, media , politics , general public... role of media in spreading news about good or bad situations going on in current time... and how the media can change the impression about one person from good to bad.... role of media in it... who is the looser... whom to believe and whom not believe ( General public).... Hope by now you can guess which movie it is if you have seen its - RANN.

Rann movie directed by Mr. Ramgopal varma and released in 700 theater's worldwide on same day... he considered many issues while creating this movie.... the story, screenplay, direction... the way he took out the expression from the each actor who worked in the movie, characters and the roles and especially choosing a right person who fit exactly in that particular role was very good ....

It did not take any current happening issue's but still there was some reason, he maintained importance of media, how the people work so hard to maintain their channel TRP's .... story goes around all these above issue's ...

I am very much confident that every director cannot make such movie's every body have their own creativity in making movies so Hats off to all who make such creative movies...

One of the sweet memory of.... my ....

Challani weather,asale Weekend, tellavaarujamuna 6 ayyindi mummy vachi... Lemma ani okkamata ante usual ga andariki ekkado kaali 150/100 lo B.P perugutundi kadaaaaa.... I know idi common for everybody manam manaki ooha telisinappatinundi entha peddavallamaina mana parents ila chestune untaru manam visukkuntune untam ....

But, Naaku matram ilanti situation lo ma mummy poddune niddara lepitha maha baga niddrostundi sumi... ya meeru nammina nammaka poina idi NIJAM NIJAM NIJAM....

Anduke naku eppudaina leave petti intlo baga nidra povalani decide aithe... ma mummy ki aaa mundu roju night instructions istanu.... aaa emundi poddune lepoddani ani anukuntunnara asalu kaaadu.... repu naaku poddune important class undi twaraga lepamani cheptha anthe aaa roju naaaku pandage pandaga full nidra potha papam maa mummy ki eeee vishayama teleeka nannu lepi lepi aaame BP perige time lo cheptah eee roju nenu leave pettananai....

meeku kuda ila evevo memories unde untai ... which you might forget due to the daily routine works and tension and other reasons.... ila mee blog lo pettukoni eppudo okasaraina meeeku chikakau putti meee bolg meeru chaduvu kunte malli ivanni gurtochi machi feeling utsaham santhoshanga feel avtaru....